How i got started

[bigc]

When i was two years old my parents were stationed in singapore due to my dad being in the army, my grandfather said to my mum he didnt want us to go as he wouldnt be here when we returned, my mum said dont be daft its only three years, six weeks before we were due back he died at home in his sleep, i was now five years old and had no recollection of my grandfather, one day i went to the bathroom as i turned there was a man standing by the wash basin, i ran downstairs asking my mum who the man upstairs was, she ran upstairs but there was no one there, when she asked me what he was like i described my grandfather in detail, the image is still vivid now, after this strange things happened in the house, myself and my mother heard our names called, there was footsteps heard in my bedroom and things disappeared then turned up again in a different place, this continued until we left the house some 17 years later, its the occurences i experianced during this time that made me interested in the paranormal today, a fascinating subject.
Best Wishes
Big C.

[angel]

hey bc nice to see ya around

well i had a gift from an early age to but more voices being young & not knowing what to do with it or how to deal with it i blocked it . then when i understood more i sort help & how to use my gifts thats it really i am what i am who i am.....

love vic xxxxxx

[mells]

Hi Big C & Angel,

I have a few Expeirences that I would like to share.....

I remember being around 10 yrs old, and seeing what looks like a ghost at the top of the stairs in my auntys manor house, I was with my nana at the time, she also saw it. From that day on, most times that I stayed at my auntys I had an expeirence, but being young I was so freightened & didnt understand what was happening. I would just run away.

As I grew older, I use to see an old man in my mums kitchen, even my dog would cry if he had to go in to the kitchen, since then my parents have had the kitchen extended, and now I dont get the same sensory feelings when I go in the kitchen. My Stepdad has seen my nana about five times in the last year walking along the hallway in her nightwear, and yet he is very sceptical of the paranormal.

I moved into my house nearly two years ago, I have had 4 expeirences so far.
I have seen a young woman walking down my stairs, and it scared me s***less. & I have passed a spirit on my landing upstairs, I got the impression that it was not a nice spirit so made a quick exit to another part of the house, I am always having things go missing, and then turn up at a later time in another place

My Aunty also has an old woman in her house, shes dressed in black and is really friendly, and all my family have at some point seen her.

I have also had other expeirences in a hotel I use to work in.

The thing is, I have these expeirences and just dont know how to handle them, I mean I freak out and just want to get far away as possible, I believe this is because I dont know how to handle them, anyone got any suggestions?

I always thought that they wouldnt show themselves if they know you are not ready, so why do they do so when they must have an idea I am to scared, lol.

How do you sort help? where do you go?


Mells

[joyduffill]

Hi Mells

Have you tried talking to the spirits? Maybe you could ask them why they are there or even try asking them to leave if it makes you feel uncomfortable.

Are they connected to you or your house? Do you know them?

You could contact your local spiritualist church and ask their help.

Love & Light



Joy

[bigc2]

I have known a couple of cases where people experianced all sorts of phenomena similar to what you describe, in most of these cases the person has a sensitivity they are not aware of, this creates an open port for these experiances, like joy says a good development circle at a spiritulist church teaches you to control it rather than the other way round. In a lot of these cases the sensitivity tends to run in the family line, ie grandmother/mother/daughter, i know one woman who had such strong experiances she thought she was going mad, she was actually advised to contact a spiritulist church by her medical team, she joined a developing group and started to understand about what she had been experiancing for quite a few years, when she understood the last thing she wanted was to lose it. If a person has this natural ability it will come out to be developed when the times right.
Best Wishes
Big C.

[mells]

joyduffill said:

Hi Mells

Have you tried talking to the spirits? Maybe you could ask them why they are there or even try asking them to leave if it makes you feel uncomfortable.

Are they connected to you or your house? Do you know them?

You could contact your local spiritualist church and ask their help.

Love & Light



Joy

Hi Joy,

No I have not tried talking to the spirits, I will try to remeber to do it if I have another expeirence.

I beleive a few of the encounters that I have had are connected to buildings some way or another, I suppose I could look into that further.

I havent got a local spiritualist church yet, can anyone recommend any?

Mells

[mells]

bigc2 said:

I have known a couple of cases where people experianced all sorts of phenomena similar to what you describe, in most of these cases the person has a sensitivity they are not aware of, this creates an open port for these experiances, like joy says a good development circle at a spiritulist church teaches you to control it rather than the other way round. In a lot of these cases the sensitivity tends to run in the family line, ie grandmother/mother/daughter, i know one woman who had such strong experiances she thought she was going mad, she was actually advised to contact a spiritulist church by her medical team, she joined a developing group and started to understand about what she had been experiancing for quite a few years, when she understood the last thing she wanted was to lose it. If a person has this natural ability it will come out to be developed when the times right.
Best Wishes
Big C.

Thanks for that

Mells

[joyduffill]

Hi Mells

There is a spiritualist church on Borough Road, Middlesbrough - thats probably about the closest for you I think.

I occasionally go the our local one, just around the corner from me infact - you are welcome to come with me if you don't fancy going on your own.

Love & Light


Joy